I was recently asked for some advice by a man who was dating a woman.
He asked in an email, “Should I pay for her dinner?”
I decided to record a video in response to him that also moved me to write a letter to women….
You are priceless.
In our culture today the real value of the feminine has been far undervalued and under-appreciated.
We tend to value things that we can touch, see, or understand with our logical mind.
But the real essence of who you are as woman is beyond form, dancing in the unseen, intangible realms.
The magic of the feminine is your mystery.
As a woman one of your gifts is your profound intuition. You sense, see, and feel things beyond the physical. You know things way in advance. People may call you crazy, unreasonable, even unrealistic, but know that nothing revolutionary was created by dreaming small and buying into limitations.
We need your feminine gifts now on this planet more than ever in human history. We need your vision and your multi-dimensional sensitivity.
You as woman have that magical ability to breathe life into something where there was nothing and give it form.
There is a reason that when you love you light up a room.
There is reason that when you give yourself to your man and support him with your heart’s devotion, his entire life transforms and even his income increases.
Your value is not in how you look, how much you weigh, how nice your skin is, whether you have no wrinkles or cellulite. Just you being an open-hearted, radiant, blessing force of love… you are the gift in itself.
Just you allowing your soul-shine to smile upon all those you come in contact with is grace.
So, never sell your heart, body, or soul for love. The love you will get this way isn’t real.
Stay true to who you are and your inner-knowing. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give us as men: Your authentic heart’s offering. If you aren’t you because you want us to love you, then we don’t really have YOU anyways.
You being fully self-expressed as the feminine is the gift.
There is nothing you need to DO and nothing you need to prove. I know we live in a culture where doing is worshiped, but know that just your presence is everything.
As a woman you are a profound alchemical portal of transformation for us men. You are a Universe of infinite wonder where all of life exists.
Do you really know the power you have in the depth of your heart to move universes with simply the blink of an eye or a smile?
Do you really know the power you have to resurrect a life and give hope just with your compassion and care?
Do you really know the power you have to shape the future of humanity with the way you love a child?
Do you really know the power you have to inspire, so much so that a man built the Taj Mahal for his wife, who was dead!
Out of you we are all birthed. For every human being alive, you were our first home for 9 months. Out of you we were literally formed and came into this world. Without you we wouldn’t be.
And with you we are more alive.
With you I feel like I can touch the skies.
With you there is nothing I cannot do.
I see you.
I honor you.
I love you.